I would often file for a divorce. I have an older child about 8mth. I am not working right now, (quited my job when I was pregnant). My husband and I do not see eye to eye when our baby is born. I felt he stressed. So he does not. He always threathen me with words like, "If it came back today, I throw things out year, can leave the house." etc etc. I think often how to win custody of my child. I get my child, even I am not working? Can I ask for alimony. Well, I have your answer right here. Talk to a lawyer