I really would have to screw my husband while he was divorcing, but I want to be bigger person. He had multiple affairs with me and although I could go for support, alimony and child and put him through the ringer. I just want what's best for my children. To avoid the ugliness that could arise. . Could it together and I go to a lawyer to work everything so that it is all up and up? I just report without suffering children. They should receive child support from him. He said it yourself divorce, but children involved do not want anything to slip through the cracks we do it ourselves. I was so glad to find this – you could, but then the lawyer will represent one party. With children involved I would honestly say to you get a lawyer if he is willing to accept things, then let it go to your lawyer and to sign the papers. In order to divorce you, do not bother with the children there is a lot of things will not consider that needed to be addressed. For example, the claim for taxes that should be there or just custodial parent will be able to do this, and think about a doctor, hospital, ophthalmologist, dentist, things like that should be in divorce decree . You also need to think about you, you say you do not want alimony, but there are other issues, such as joint debts and assets, make sure you are getting what you are entitled to by law. I would seriously consider getting your lawyer, if he agrees with what your lawyer says, then fine. If he is a lawyer to obtain, where certain things are left out of the decree, then it will only benefit him. Cheers