I have a son in year 15, who lives here in Baltimore Maryland and he does not want to see me, his mother and I went to court ordered mediation so I could get along and promote a positive relationship, for the sake of my child. I had liberal visitation divorce agreement were originally specified can see it, but his mother. Later, I met and married another woman and now I have a 5 year old girl who has never met. I tried several times to try and talk to his mother to let her know that this is not correct. 627 they are paying for mortgage mthly living in the house and 510 for child support and 601 mthly mthly for his sister who lives in another state, I have no extra money for a lawyer and my mother both know he died 01/10/09 and mother and her brother came to my veiwing mothers came back with my son to let him see his grandmother, she stuck to anyone who wants to talk to him or comfort him everything I could see was hatred and pain in my eyes son, I have a son who I love and would like to be part of his life but his mother has influence over him I do not think this is possible, AI 510 ordered to pay child support and 627mthly mthly for a child who wants nothing to do with me or my family, I think that guidelines should be implemented for anyone who break court orders a fine fine first time two and jail time and third time should lose custody, fighting for what parents when they should, I feel my son is only used as a bargaining tool for her in court and is so wrong. Well, I have your answer. I understand where you are coming from and not only mothers do. I fight a similar situation with my exhusband. He is and has been trying to keep me away from my children's lives, because I said I wanted a divorce almost 4 years ago now. I agree that any parent who denies the rights of the other parent should lose custody, but this does not happen. My Ex said that He would see me in jail rather than let me see my children. Do not smoke, drink or drugs, and yet he will not let me near children. The best alternative is to document everything she does, and just keep trying. Good luck. I feel for you.